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A divorce can be one of the most
traumatic life events that you will ever go through.
We don't have to tell you that it
can be very traumatic for you and also your kids, if you
have any. Whether you or your
partner is thinking about divorce or a decision has already
been made and you're in the process of divorce, there's
trauma involved and a great deal of upset.
Wherever you are in the process, it's
vital that you feel your emotions but that you find a way to
stay grounded in the reality of your situation and what you
want. It's very easy to allow
your emotions to sweep you away whether the decision to
divorce has been made or you're trying to decide whether to
make that step or not. Divorce
is a cross-roads of sorts.
You have the choice whether to stay
stuck in the past or start looking toward your future.
Even though there is usually a great
deal of sadness when there's a pending divorce and
afterwards, there can also be an opening toward a better
life. Here are some ideas to
help you if you are in this situation...
Enough is Enough: How to Know When It's
Time to Leave
By Susie and Otto Collins
Survival Tips After a Divorce:
The Pitfalls of Advice
By Susie and Otto Collins
Healing Tips After a Divorce: Pay Attention to Your
Intentions
By Susie and Otto Collins
Divorce Tips:
"What About the Kids?"
By Susie and Otto Collins
Making Completions After a Divorce
By Susie and Otto Collins
How to Handle the Divorce "Shoulds"
By Susie and Otto Collins
Advice When You're Faced with the Divorce
Decision
By Susie and Otto Collins
Post-Divorce Tips that
Can Make Your Life Easier
By Susie and Otto Collins
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