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An important element in rebuilding
trust in your relationship is recapturing the romance or
spark that you once felt between the two of you.
If something like cheating has happened
that destroyed trust, romance can be the furthest thing from
your mind. In fact, you may
think that you'll never feel romantic toward your partner
again after what his or her betrayal of your trust.
If your relationship is to build trust
and be even better than it was before trust was broken, you
both, at some point in this process, need to start coming
toward one another in the "love and romance" department.
We're not saying to sweep your feelings
under the carpet and pretend that everything's okay if
you've found out that your partner cheated.
Please know that there is a lot of
groundwork and trust-building agreements that may need to be
made before you get to the romance department!
So start building the foundations that
we talk about on this website. Take care of building your
strong foundation first and building trust one moment at a
time. But don't forget romance
because it is part of recipe for rebuilding trust.
We suggest you start small and go slow.
It's almost like you are starting over with your
relationship, especially when it comes to romance and
lovemaking. Here are some
ideas to increase romance in your relationship, whether
you've had trust issues in the past or not...
A Romantic Gift Idea for Any Day of the Year
By Susie and Otto Collins
Romantic Tips to Turn Up the Heat in Your Love Relationship
By Susie and Otto Collins
Are You Ready for Romance Again but Your
Partner is Not?
By Susie and Otto Collins
4 Romantic Connectors for Those Times When
You or Your Partner Feels Overwhelmed and Stressed Out
By Susie and Otto Collins
Add Spark to Your Relationship by Doing the Unexpected
By Susie and Otto Collins
The Whens and Hows of Re-Introducing Romance into Your Love
Relationship
By Susie and Otto Collins
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