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The question that comes up,
especially after an affair or infidelity has been
discovered, is this... "Can we
save our marriage?" Whether
there's been an affair or trust has been broken in other
ways, it's a wake-up call for the marriage.
The wake-up call is for both people to
re-evaluate what they want and how they want to live their
lives. So can a marriage be
saved after trust has been broken?
Yes--if both people decide that's what
they want and if they are willing to make some changes that
will take them toward it.
We've found that many people give up
too soon on a marriage and other people also hang on too
long to a relationship that has died.
Before you give up, explore all options
to save the relationship. Learn how to communicate; learn
and practice trust-building skills; take a good look at your
commitments to each other and what you want in your lives.
Here is some information to help you as
you explore saving your marriage...
Can You Affair-Proof Your
Relationship?
By Susie and Otto Collins
Infidelity Aftermath: How Could An Affair Have Happened In
My Marriage and Can We Recover Trust?
By Susie and Otto Collins
Marriage Advice for Troubled Times
By Susie and Otto Collins
Get to the Roots of Marital Missteps
By Susie and Otto Collins
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